How to Tackle a Situation Where You are Taken For Granted

The most common situation every emotional person has to face is when he/she is taken for granted. In a group of friends, family, office those people feel the most about everybody and also suffers maximum than others because their emotional side got hurt whenever someone they care about does not give a damn what he feels, in short, consider him "taken for granted." 

What is that feeling?

A few people engage so much that they build a strong relation with others with utmost trust. They spend time with them, hang out, laughing, and so on. But sometimes they suddenly started behaving awkwardly and different from what they used to. They still care for others but not act as lively as earlier; they talk with them whenever they require. Though they still feel the same for others, but do not share and express their vivid nature as they used to. 

Taken for granted means when someone thinks like-

 "Okay, he is always there for me. Even though I do not talk, do not share my feelings for him or forget something about him he won't bother because he feels for me." 

Also, when someone we know started giving less attention to us than our ego-mind does not like that, and we become miserable.

Those people may feel same for us, but somehow their behavior to us become strange. 

They don’t care about how we feel when they are behaving awkwardly.

They don’t know that we are hurt. 

Our rational behavior towards them does not count anymore. 

Here, we are going to discuss how to get rid of the situation when you are taken for granted. 

Ask and discuss. 

You should ask that person face-to-face and tell them that you don’t like their changed behavior. Ask them what the actual reason behind their change is. If they trust you, they may understand your situation and try to improve and share their problem. Now, whatever their reaction is, you should not be impatient and angry at them. Talk calmly and ask the reason.

Many problems of our lives can be solved through just discussing. Try to sit and spend some quality time with that person and share your feelings. They would understand. 

Tell someone to intervene. 

If you feel that the person may not say the actual reason even if you ask him, bring someone who is a common friend.

Take help from a mutual friend and request him to try to know what is going on inside the head of the person. In this way, you can know what  the person is feeling for you and what is wrong with him, and so on.

After knowing the matter, you can move ahead and voluntarily ask the person what went wrong and try to sort out everything. If you think that you can not solve the problem, let the time fix the issue. In this way, you can get your old friend back.  

Let it go.

Sometimes, even though you cling at the point that everything will fall in place, things seem not working. At that time you must not stick to that person and wasting your time thinking about them. 

Everyone we come across has a purpose to fulfill, a role to play in our lives. It may happen that even though you talk to them, there seem no changes in their behavior. Hence, their role would be over, and we should not waste our energies in convincing them. Move on and remember that everything happens for a better tomorrow.

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Driving needs significant attention since the slightest mistake can result in severe consequences of accident.

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Add these top 8 Mind blowing Linkin Park songs to your playlist

 

A brief History of the band.

 

Linkin Park is an American Rock band founded in 1996 from Agoura Hills, California. Their first album was hybrid theory launched in the year of 2000. So far the band has 6 members, and 4 artists are still an active member of the group.

Now the band has some amazing and mind-blowing songs that a music geek should listen. Here there are 8 such songs of Linkin Park that you should instantly add to your playlist. 

1.    In The End – Hybrid Theory (2000)

In The End is the 8th song of the debut album, Hybrid Theory, of the band. This song is well-known and considered to be one of the best songs of the band. It is their signature song and after one step closer (another famous song of Linkin Park) it is the most played song by the group in their live concerts.

2.    What I’ve done – Minutes to Midnight (2007)

The second best song could be none other than What I’ve Done from their hit album Minutes to Midnight and was also nominated for Best Hard Rock Performance in 52nd Grammy Awards.

3.    Castle of Glass – Living things (2012)

Castle of Glass is produced by Mike Shinoda and Rick Rubin. The song is the addition of their Medal Of Honor series. 

4.    Numb – Meteora (2003)

Meteora is one of the best albums of Linkin Park. Numb is their third track of Meteora. It is one of their best songs and liked even by the critics. Numb has topped the list of Hot Modern Rock Tracks for more than 10 weeks. 

5.    New Divide – Transformers: Revenge of the Fallen (2009)

New Divide is one of the best and critically acclaimed song of the Linkin Park featured in the movie Transformers: Revenge of the Fallen. 

6.    Lost in the echo – Living Things (2012)

The song is the part of Living Things released in the year of 2012. The song was written by the group and produced by one of the lead vocalist Mike Shinoda and Rick Rubin. Though the song had to face many mixed reviews in its release people, do find its good composition overall. 

7.    Somewhere I Belong – Meteora (2003)

The song is the first track of the band’s second album, i.e. Meteora. The song is very popular and had entered on the top of many music charts. It maintained the first position in Billboard top 100 for a couple of weeks.

8.    Crawling – Hybrid Theory (2000)

Crawling is the fifth song on the first album of Linkin Park. It won a Grammy Award in 2002 for Best Hard Rock Performance. The song has best rap by Mike Shinoda and amazing voice of Chester Bennington. 
 

Do Not Read While Traveling: Here's Why

Traveling means exploring. Exploring a new world while moving from one place to another. Some people do it by choice and some by force. Everyone has a different way to pass the time while traveling. A few like to read books to cut the time and avoid boredom but, medically it is not advised to read anything while traveling. Here is the reason for why we should not read while traveling.

5 Magical Ways to Achieve Mental Toughness

 

Are you feeling broken too often? Or don’t feel doing anything productive?

Then you must attain the mental toughness in your life.

Top 10 Evergreen Songs by R D Burman You Should Listen

Top 10 Evergreen Songs by R D Burman you should listen.

R D Burman is the king of music. In his era, he has given some beautiful compositions that still people sing whenever they remember Pancham Da or hear the tunes of that song. 

Top 10 Evergreen Songs by R D Burman You Should Listen.

1. Chura Liya Hai tumne Jo Dil Ko.

Chura Liya Hai tumne Jo Dil Ko is one of the hit songs from  R D Burman’s one of hit albums, i.e. Yadon Ki Baaraat. The song is sung by Asha Bhosle and Mohammad Rafi and written by Majrooh Sultanpuri.

2. Mere Naina Saawan Bhadon.

This song is from the movie Mehboob, released in 1976. The song has a melodious voice of Kishor Kumar, written by Anand Bakshi and composed by R D Burman The song is also sung by Lata Mangeshkar.

   

3. Chingari Koi Bhadke.

Chingari Koi Bhadke is one of the best songs composed R D Burman from the movie Amar Prem (1971). The song was picturized on Rajesh Khanna and Sharmila Tagore. This song is written by Anand Bakshi and sung by Kishor Kumar.

4. O mere dil ke chain.

This song is from the movie Mere Jivan Sathi (1972). The song is sung by Kishor Kumar and written by Majrooh Sultanpuri and again, composed by R D Burman himself. The song is very popular and lyrics are very romantic. 

5. Tum Aa Gaye Ho Nur Aa Gaya Hai.

This beautiful song is from the movie Aandhi (1974). Written by Gulzar, composed by R D Burman, this romantic song is sung by the legendary duo Lata Mangeshkar and Kishor Kumar.

6. Dilbar Mere.

Written by Gulshan Bawara, composed by R D Burman and sung by Kishor Kumar, this romantic hit is from the movie Satte Pe Satta (1982) and it is a must listen for the music lovers.

7. Ek Ladki Ko Dekha To Aisa Laga.

The song has superb lyrics by Javed Akhtar. The song is from the album 1942 A Love Story (1995), and has a beautiful voice of Kumar Sanu and composed by R D Burman. 

8. Aao Twist Karen

The song is from the movie Bhoot Bangla (1965) which is also the first movie of R D Burman as a music composer. This is one of the best disco songs which is sung by Manna Dey, a legend singer of Indian cinema and written by Hasrat Jaipuri.

9. Nadiya Se Dariya

This song is from the film Namak Haram (1973). Written by Anand Bakshi, sung by Kishor Kumar and composed by R D Burman. The song is filmed on Rajesh Khanna and Rekha.

10. Chand Mera Dil 

Sung by Mohammad Rafi, this beautiful song is from the movie Hum Kisi Se Kum Nahin (1977). The song has a artistic touch by R D Burman as music director and Majrooh Sultanpuri. The other songs of the movie Hum Kisi Se Kum Nahin are also very popular.  

9 A R Rahman Songs You Must Listen

A R Rahman is the king of melody. With his impressive and magical tunes you simply mesmerized by his overall composition. This international composer has made India proud by winning Oscar award for his movie Slumdog Millionaire for the song Jai Ho! 

Today, we will see 9 A R Rahman Songs You Must Listen.

 

1.    Dil Se Re - Bombay (1998)

Dil Se Re is the title track of the movie Bombay, realized on 1998. The song was sung by A R Rahman himself along with Anuradha Sriram, Febi Mani, and Annupamma. This energetic, romantic song you must listen. 

2.    Kun Faya Kun - Rockstar (2011)

This beautiful composition is of Movie Rockstar, which is considered as one of the albums of A R Rahman. This spiritually refreshing song is superbly written. A. R. Rahman, Javed Ali, Mohit Chauhan and Nizami Brothers are the artists of this soundtrack. 

3.    Khwaja Mere Khwaja – Jodha Akbar (2007)

This Sufi masterpiece was sung by A. R. Rahman himself and written by Javed Akhtar.

4.    Ye Jo Des Hai Tera – Swades (2004)

One of the best songs of A. R. Rahman is Ye Jo Des Hai Tera from the movie Swades. The words of the song remind us our unbounded relation with our country. The beautiful composition is written by Javed Akhtar.

5.    Jai Ho! – Slumdog Millionaire (2009)

Sung by Sukhwinder Singh, Vijay Prakash, Mahalakshmi Iyer and Tanvi Shah, composed by A. R. Rahman and written by Gulzar. This song was internationally acclaimed and got the Oscar for the best song category to Rahman. 

6.    Tere Bina – Guru (2006)

It is a romantic song sung by A. R. Rahman, Chinmayi, Murtuza Khan and Quadir Khan. Written by Gulzar, this romantic song is composed by A. R. Rahman.

7.    Maa Tujhe Salaam – Album (Vande Matram, 1997)

This is the patriotic song we listen in almost every national festivals. The song is a part of an album Vande Mataram released on 1997. Song is composed and sung by A. R. Rahman. 

8.    Taal – Title track (1999)

Taal se taal mila which is the title song of movie Taal released on 1999. The song is sung and composed by A. R. Rahman and filmed on Aishwariya Rai. 

9.    Guzarish – Ghajini     (2008)

Sung by Javed Ali and Sonu Nigam guzarish is a wonderful melodious song. The song is composed by A. R. Rahman and is picturised on Amir Khan and Asin in the movie Ghajini.